“Ego” is defined as character or opinion of yourself. But the word “Egoist” is described as negative.
Ego of oneself is the reason for one’s success or failure. My ego gained me lots of successes at definite levels. It is the cause for my failures too. The good thing in either of them is acquiring useful knowledge and experience.
Boosting ego is necessary at times to reap your rewards. When the ego is alive we will possess a win-all attitude which is of course a mandatory. The “Win-Win“ mind-set is explained in many motivation books that indirectly puts in picture how to boost one’s ego.
Ego heightening draws to Egoist state of mind. The society condemns egoist approach so the guilty of owning it should go through all the accusations and criticization. Once the ego is vanished the motivation drops down. Ego is directly proportional to impulse or inspiration. Without stimulation one cannot compete or simply can do nothing.
The best way is to let clash the inner ego & outer ego. Inner ego is possessed from within the heart ; what it really wants. The outer one is alive for others to impress, stir around, astonish or strike for sake of doing it. The driving force should come from the result of ego vs ego which will be very stable and exists as long as the need is around or absent.
